Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. These ideas will help you to reawaken feelings in your relationship so that your partner finds you irresistible and feels as much in love with you now as in the early days of your relationship.

Draw two stick figures walking together under a smiling sun

Your partner will appreciate this distinctive gift. If your drawing isn’t faultless it doesn’t really matter, but show that you have put some effort into making it look nice and beautiful. Don’t forget to write your names above the figures. You should also draw a big heart and write inside it “I love you” or “I still love you”. Address an envelope with your partner’s office and mark it as “Urgent”. Place the drawings inside and ensure the envelope is sealed. Send it to your partner so she can receive it in the middle of a taxing and exhausting day in her office.

Arrange a picnic on a cool summer’s night: Spread a blanket on the floor and bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. Lie down on the blanket and gaze at the stars as both of you enjoy the snacks, chocolates and champagne.

In delivering a single rose to your partner, she will be both surprised and delighted. “You mean the world to me” or a similar message could be attached.

Prepare a box in readiness for that special massage.

You will need some massage oil, a sheet of colored tissue paper and a blank card in addition to a small decorated cardboard box. Arrange the tissue paper in the box. Write your phone number on a blank card and write “Massage provided, please call me”. Set out the massage items on a table in readiness.

Bring back childhood memories

Take a walk together in the park and encourage your partner to sit on a swing.

Take two big water pistols along with you to the beach. Pull them out into the water, give one to your partner and both of you should have a big water fight.

Ask your partner if there was something she’s always wanted as a child. Whatever she tells you buy it on her birthday.

Do not just read this article and not do anything. Try it!

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