Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. These ideas will help you to reawaken feelings in your relationship so that your partner finds you irresistible and feels as much in love with you now as in the early days of your relationship.

Draw two stick figures walking together under a smiling sun

Your partner will appreciate this distinctive gift. If your drawing isn’t faultless it doesn’t really matter, but show that you have put some effort into making it look nice and beautiful. Don’t forget to write your names above the figures. You should also draw a big heart and write inside it “I love you” or “I still love you”. Address an envelope with your partner’s office and mark it as “Urgent”. Place the drawings inside and ensure the envelope is sealed. Send it to your partner so she can receive it in the middle of a taxing and exhausting day in her office.

Arrange a picnic on a cool summer’s night: Spread a blanket on the floor and bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. Lie down on the blanket and gaze at the stars as both of you enjoy the snacks, chocolates and champagne.

In delivering a single rose to your partner, she will be both surprised and delighted. “You mean the world to me” or a similar message could be attached.

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